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This week we will discuss some of the evidence and mental health findings concerning effective parenting. Most parents use their own childhood and anecdotal experiences gathered through early adulthood as a guide. Unfortunately, many parents did not grow up with a proper blue print for effective parenting and may get lost with reactive thinking. “I don’t want to do what my father/mother did to me.” Others may at times over-identify with their own childhood. “Honey, I am spanking our child because I was spanked and I turned out well.”

This week’s topic, like our last, is so broad we will not cover a large part of it. Readers of the blog will learn a bit about what researchers have shown concerning parenting and some of the ongoing controversies as well. Charlotte will add a few personal touches. Feel free to add comments, personal stories/views, or ask questions.